The main goal for this challenge is to ensure you rekindle, be better, show love, and be a more attentive, intentional, and all-around thoughtful partner. This challenge is for people dating, engaged, married for less than a month or 50 years, and more.
With three days until Valentine’s Day, this could be a perfect time to rekindle the love in your relationship. The challenge allows you to enjoy a good time and focus on your partner for 14 days. Let’s dive in!
To ensure the 14 day relationship challenge achieves the intended goals, plan a surprise date night, do something new together, share a 20-second kiss, and go for a romantic getaway. Let your imagination run wild as you look for ways of making the challenge exciting. It’s the best way to make your relationship grow.
Day 1 – Do Something Together That Is New, That Hasn’t Been Done Before
You could pick anything that matters and what you could enjoy doing together during the 14-day relationship challenge. It could be something fun or overly ambitious. You’re free to do whatever you want. The goal here is to work together as a couple.
Day 2 – Go On A Double Date With Friends
Double dates are more fun and perfect for four people or more. Having double dates in the 14-day relationship challenge gives you more options and presents opportunities for fun activities you can’t do as two.
Day 3 – Share A Fear You Have About The Relationship
Facing your fears is vital for the growth of your relationship. Instead of blaming your partner, share your concerns with them. For instance, you can say, “I’m afraid that you spend a lot of time with your friends than with me,” instead of accusing them of choosing their friends over you.
Day 4 – Share A 20 Second Kiss
Kissing is a great way of communicating your love to each other. Ensure during this 14-day relationship challenge, you take a moment and share a 20-second kiss with your partner.
Day 5 – Cook A Meal Together
What’s the one meal you enjoy as a couple? Figure that out and decide on making the meal together. It could be breakfast, brunch, or dinner. Cooking lets you enjoy your time together as you feast on a meal made with love.
Day 6 – Plan A Surprise Date Night
You can plan an adventure and explore places. It doesn’t have to be a trip outside the city. Weekend getaways can do. Changing your environment enhances your emotional responses, triggering fun to keep you away from boredom.
Day 7 – Take A Love Language Test
Decision-making can be very exhausting sometimes. Take turns to decide the little things that keep the day going. It could be what to wear, what meals to eat, when to have a rest, or when to go to bed at night. Set rules for these decisions and have fun.
Day 8 – Ask One Another 5 Deep Questions
I always enjoy sharing my dreams and struggles with someone I care about. And the only way to find out is by asking them questions. During this 14-day relationship challenge, you can ask questions on related topics or even finances.
Day 9 – Make A Couple Goals List
The list could include places you’d like to visit together. Activities that would be fun to do as a couple. Include everything you find adventurous; it would be nice if you did it as a couple. Another way to set goals is to think about bucket list ideas and make goals around finances, friends, and entertainment.
Day 10 – Leave Them A Sweet Note
Handwritten letters sound outdated, yes? But they’re so romantic, and I bet your partner will enjoy reading your handwritten note that connects to your soul. Take advantage of the 14-day relationship challenge and write sweet notes to your partner.
Day 11 – Appreciate Them For One Thing Today
Appreciating your partner even on the little things goes a long way. It could be saying thank you for paying a bill, tidying up, or caring for a loved one. Another way to appreciate your partner is to enjoy them for being them – Maybe it is how they always try to make you laugh when you are sad or how they take pride in making the home comfortable. Whatever it is, say thank you and explain why you are grateful.
Day 12 – Plan A Romantic Get Away
A romantic getaway could be a great gift that you could give to your partner or relationship. The chances of them feeling appreciated and loved are very high. A three-day trip is a great way to reconnect with each other without the distractions of everyday life. If you plan a romantic getaway, be intentional when you communicate the purpose so that both parties know the goal is to spend time alone without distraction.
Day 13 – Ask Them How You Can Be A Better Partner
When was the last time you talked about things your partner would love? Enjoy each other’s company and learn how your partner wants to be loved. Several free relationship courses online can give you clear guidance on being a better partner. Sometimes, taking paid action is unnecessary to work on your relationship. In most cases, listening skills are required to ask to listen, not to respond. The asking party should self-reflect on whether the answers are good or bad.
Day 14 – Unplug And Spend All Night With No Devices, Just Talk
Giving your partner your full undivided attention is one of the best gifts you can give each other. Lay down and enjoy your conversations without Twitter, Facebook, texts, or the constant buzzing of your phones distracting your company.
Romantic Tips to Spice Up Your Relationship
You can do a few simple things to reignite the flame and discover what it was that first drew you two together.
The following are some ways to bring the spark back to your relationship.
Act as Though You Just Met
Getting to know one another fresh is sometimes all it takes to rekindle a relationship after being together for a long time. Discuss commonalities in your interests, hobbies, and things you never knew about one another. It’s an amazing method to reignite a romance and discover new things about one another.
Dress in a Sexy Way
Dressing a little sexier is a nice way of spicing up your relationship. If your significant other has a favorite dress or shirt, they particularly like seeing you in or even a shade that they believe suits you well, put it on. Since not everything in your relationship needs to be the same old thing, you may even take this to the next level by donning some seductive underwear.
Wear Your Partner’s Favorite Cologne
Try donning some of his or her favorite cologne or perfume. Nothing awakens the senses like smell, and that lingering scent will undoubtedly make an impression that will cause you to cling to one another.
Enjoy a Sensual Birth Together
Whether you take a bath together or simply run a warm, relaxing bath for your significant other, so they can unwind after a long day, this seductive gesture will heat up your relationship. Having the lights muted and candles burning will also create a romantic atmosphere.
In the bathtub or shower, you can also surprise your significant other with something as straightforward as washing one another’s backs or shampooing each other’s hair. Enjoy your time with each other and take your time.
Savor a Glass of Wine Together
Spend some quiet time talking together while sipping a glass of wine and unwinding in front of a warm fireplace or outside on a blanket under the stars. A small amount of wine can assist in uplifting the mood. Even sparkling grape juice can be equally romantic for non-drinkers. Remember that it all depends on who you are spending time with.
Use All Your Senses
You are not limited to wearing sexy attire and fragrance or perfume. Light calming candles with pleasant scents. As you stroke your partner’s hair, close your eyes and play calming romantic music. Share your favorite foods with one another. It can be a great method to re-establish a connection with each other.
Give Yourself a Break and Do Something Enjoyable
Take a break from the hustle and bustle of daily life and attend sporting events, or visit amusement parks and play some games together. This is a pleasant and interesting method to spice up your relationship.
Be Creative in the Bedroom
Try something different in your bedroom by using your imagination. You don’t have to always be in the same position. Try role-playing or perhaps look into Kama Sutra books to learn tantric postures or foreplay techniques that might impress your spouse and intensify your bond.
I hope you put into practice these challenges and spice your relationship up. You never know. You might enjoy them, or pick a few that can be part of your schedule. Let this year’s Valentine’s Day be intentional to ensure your relationship remains stronger.
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